Does He Care or is it all just a game?

If U love the guy age doesn't matter,my wife is 13 yrs younger than I,yet we've been happy since 1975.As for his baggage,he doesn't need to test U,because of someone else's infidelity.U r an individual & should not be treated as a continuation of his mistakes. { IE innocent until proven guilty} I don't know this person nor his IQ,but it sounds like he cares 4 U quite a bit,if he was just after ,why waste time at the hospital with U.Tell the guy how U feel about him,but also make him understand U r not his ex & will not be judged as though U were an extension of her. Good luck & may U have a great life